Hajj - The Journey Of A Lifetime
An account of my experiences
Answering the Call
Preparation
From New York to Makkah
Makkah
Hajj - Mina
Hajj - Muzdalifah & Arafat
Jamarat & Farewell to Makkah
Medina
Returning Home
Final Words
Makkah Shareef, March 2000. (pic. by me) Alhamdu-lilla, Allah has afforded me the opportunity to perform Hajj, the fifth pillar of Islam. I pray that Allah accept my Hajj and that of all the brothers and sisters, and grant us Hajj Mabroor, InshahAllah, Ameen.

Before I left for my trip on March 8th 2000, I received countless phone calls from family and friends expressing their well- wishes. The calls from relatives of my age were mixed with surprise and excitement, while those from my peers were more of pride and joy. I would like to take this opportunity to thank all of you who called, wrote, visited me and also those who took the time to come to the Airport, Jazakum Allah Khair.

I answered the call of Allah, Subanahu Wataallah (SWT), not without the usual uncertainty that one goes through when embarking on a journey such as this. The constant second guessing of oneself, of my preparedness, my current level of practice of Allah (SWT)commands and all the past and present neglect that I have been so guilty of. These thoughts created havoc in my mind. Nevertheless, I knew one thing for sure, if I was going to make Hajj, then I had better be prepared. (top)

Preparation

I read all the books and articles on the Internet, that I could find and went to a seminar, but most of all, I spoke to people I knew who performed Hajj recently. In that regard, no books, articles or seminars was as helpful and informative to me as my long phone conversations (some of which he initiated) with Uncle Mansoor. He and Aunty Zai had made Hajj the previous year (1999) and they were eager to answer much of the questions that I had regarding the rituals of Hajj. They even prepared a day to day Itinerary for me and compiled a book of supplications for each step of the pilgrimage. 
May Almighty Allah (SWT) reward them generously for their help and support, even their last wish for me was, "Hajj Mabruke". A dua that I will come to understand only too well.A few weeks prior to my trip, as suggested by one of the Internet articles, I started an exercise regimen, as aggressive as any other Khan's exercise regimen could be, ten to fifteen minutes on the treadmill.
I did not go back to bed after Fajr salaat and I tried to reduce my hours of sleep. Needless to say, as I got closer to the date of departure, my treadmill experience was just a memory. I had developed a slight cold and it was all the excuse I needed to stop the exercise.
Also on recommendation from Uncle Mansoor and other articles that I read, I made my Will and brought my family up to date with our financial affairs. Then again on advice, I packed a substantial amount of patience, which turned out to be the most useful asset throughout my journey.(top)

Departure

We left J.F.K International airport on Wednesday March 8th 2000 at about 7:50pm, our first stop, Amsterdam, Holland. I stowed my hand luggage, (in it was my Ihram, a belt, sandals, reading material and some light snacks) then put my seat back, stretched out and went to sleep . 
When I woke up it was daybreak. I saw brothers and sisters performing their salaat so I made wudu and prayed salatul Fajr, while sitting, just facing forward, not bothering about the direction of Qibla. That was new for me.
We arrived at Amsterdam after about 6 hrs of flying, (2:30am Thursday, New York time, 8:30am local time), waited an hour or so then flew for an additional eight hours to Amman, Jordan.
At the Airport, we did not find a designated changing area, but managed to find a suitable place to change into Ihram, we then offered our two rakat prayer, in a designated prayer room, made our intention for Hajj Tamattu, recited Talbiyah, then waited for our flight to Jeddah. 
Our group leader handed out I.D cards which we pinned onto the top portion of our Ihram (rida). These cards identified us by our group name, our nationality, and listed a cell phone number to call in case we get lost, it was printed in English.

After six hours of waiting (8:00pm local time) we boarded our flight. Two hours later, 10:00pm Jordan time, 11:00pm Thursday Jeddah time, we arrived at the Airport. We were now a full 8 hrs. ahead of New York, which would have been 3:00pm Thursday.

We exited the aircraft onto the tarmac and were taken by busses to the Hajj Terminal. The drive was about 15 minutes and we recited collective Talbiyah on the way. We had about three hours wait until we went through  Immigration and Customs, then an additional seven hours before we got our busses to go to Makkah. At one point, I was afraid that we would miss Jummah salaat at the Haram. 
Before we departed we had the pleasure of listening to a welcome address by Dr. Faiz Al-Abideen, a Guyanese medical doctor who resides and practice in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. He had also now become an adviser to some members of the Royal family.
Pilgrims arriving in Jeddah (source - Tell me about Hajj)

 His work allowed him to visit the White House where he met with President Bush who asked him, "Dr. Faiz, do you know that your religion is one of the fastest growing religion in the United States today?". Dr. Faize offered to take us to his home for breakfast but time did not permit.
We stopped at various checkpoints along the way and passed by the ever famous "Muslims Only" sign, on one of those stops we were each given a bottle of the precious Zamzam water. As was expected the landscape was dry, mountainous and had little greenery. 
In Makkah our group leader surrendered our passports at a "Holding Center" and we were given hand bands and I.D. cards to carry with us at all times, this information was written in Arabic.(top)

Makkah

Scene outside of Mosque, March 2000. (pic. by me)

By the time we got to our hotel it was very close to salatul Jummah, we made wudu and rushed out to the Haram. There was no way we could have made it into the mosque, because we were so late. The crowd was already onto the streets so we had to settle for a space on the hot asphalt. Alhamdu-lilla we had walked with our musallah (prayer mat). Later the next day it was reported, in the Saudi Newspaper, that over 1.5 million people had offered the Jummah prayer at the Haram. 

Holy Kaba in background and the Maqam Ibrahim in foreground, the Maqam contains the footprints of Prophet Ibraham. Following the Quran, pilgrims offer two rakat prayers here. (source - Tell me about Hajj) After salaat, we returned to the hotel. Just before salatul Asr, I went back with another brother to perform Umrah. We finished just before salatul Magrib, waited to pray Isha salat then returned to the hotel. I showered and changed into street clothes then went down to the hotel restaurant for dinner. 
Our group was so large that we had booked the entire hotel and taken over the kitchen. Guyanese food was served.

Later that night I went back to Haram Shareef alone and stayed until after Fajr salat. On my way to the mosque I observed the layout of the streets. Numerous vendors lined the streets in store fronts and on the sidewalk. These Store fronts, I had been told, was erected specifically for commerce for the Pilgrims. There was a wide virety of clothing but not so for food, (although personally, I found the individually packed muffins and cakes to be quite a treat). Not far from my hotel, there was a laundry, and further along the street were tea vendors and soda vending machines.
I was prepared for the beggars, but I was surprised to see them sitting in the middle of the sidewalk and sometimes in the middle of the street when we would returned from salatul Fajr. I had never seen so many deformed people in one place before in my life.

 
There was a Hospital at the corner of the street where I entered the mosque and across from Gate number one (1) of the Haram, (King Abdul Aziz gate), I could see KFC, and Burger King. To my immediate right was the King's Palace, which I was told he use only when he visits the Haram, and also to accommodate dignitaries who comes to perform Hajj.

Men and women have separate entrances to the Zamzam well in the underground galleries. Today the water is pumped out in channels and provided through taps in the Zamzam area. (source- Tell me about Hajj)

At the mosque I took an escalator up to the roof  and took my time looking at the Kaba from above and feeling the emotions of the whole atmosphere. The unmistakable "hum" that one hears that is created by the pilgrims individually reciting their Duas, Dhikr and Quranic verses as they made their Tawaf around the Holy Kaba.
The mosques has three levels in addition to the mataf and countless doors, elevators and escalators. It is the most magnificent structure that I have ever seen. There are several hundred if not thousands, of speakers, fans, and chandeliers throughout the mosque, and also several areas with coolers of Zamzam water. Once during Sai, I enjoyed a good drink from coolers along the way to Marwah on the second level.
It is quite difficult to cover the entire 88 acres of the mosque, but I managed to cover most of the roof and the second floor.
Pilgrims are in constant Tawaf and Sai at the mosque. I made Tawaf at various times in the day, night and morning hours, and found that the best time for me was just after Dhur salaat. The crowd starts again just before Asr. 
All three levels of the mosque and the mataf can be used to perform Tawaf. For the elderly, relatives or paid-hands sometimes wheel them around, in wheelchairs, on the mataf, or most times they would choose inside the mosque.During the evening hours pilgrims also perform Tawaf on the roof, it's is a much larger area to cover, but at least it is less crowded. On the mataf area some pilgrims are also carried around the Kaba in a bed made of braided rope tied around wooden legs ("kathya"), for a fee.

source - Tell me about Hajj

 
source- Tell me about Hajj pilgrims performing sai - (source - Tell me about Hajj)
For Sai, the main floor is divided in two lanes, with the divider acting as a passageway for wheelchairs. Here again, for a fee, you can be pushed around in a wheelchair for the seven laps.

On Saturday, our group was taken on Ziara. We visited the site of the cave of Hira on Jabal Noor, (a six hour climb for the adventurous), the cave on Jabal al-Thawr where the Prophet (PBUH) took shelter during his migration, Mina, Muzdalifah and finally Arafat, and the site of Jabal ar-Rahma.

Back at the hotel, I paid at the Office for my Qurbani which was arranged through the Bank. In earlier years, Qurbani meat used to be dumped and buried, but Alhamdu-lilla, now the International Development Bank has taken on the great task of packaging and distributing the meat.
There are two types of Qurbani distribution to choose from. One that cost a little less will get the meat distributed to the local people, whilst the other will get distributed internationally to people in the much needed countries. (top)

Hajj (8th Zul-Hijjah - 13th Zul Hijjah)

Mina

On Tuesday, March14th, 2000, Zul-Hijjah 8th, 1420 we assumed Ihram again. We left our baggage in the hotel room but packed a small bag with snacks, sleeping bag and toiletries to take to Mina. The ride took about two hours. 
All the tents at Mina look alike. They are cream or natural in color and arranged in sections. 

Each section of tents are assigned to specific countries and others to continents and sub-continents. I saw tents identified for the Arab speaking countries and for the non-Arab speaking countries. Ours were located in sub-section 75B of section 19 and we were provided with additional I.D. cards to wear.
Our group leader had many years of experience and had arranged for us to be grouped with the South Asia brothers and sisters instead of the North American group. His decision was based on the fact that he knew the mutawwif who deals with the South Asia group, who will help him with arrangements for the busses. The food in this area was more familiar, and also the tents were much closer than the North American tents, to the Jamarat. Except for the days that I did Raml Jamarat, I did not venture too much outside of my tent.

one of the many tent areas in Mina, March 2000. (source - Kalam Khan)

The tents were connected in a row. We occupied two tents because the sisters were separate from the brothers. We prayed all our salaat in those tents. It was funny hearing so many Azans being given at one time, because each group prayed separately they would give their own Azan, via megaphones, while we were giving our Azan we could hear other groups giving theirs, sometimes even when we were praying our salaat we could hear the Azan.
Our tents were quite "luxurious", along with the rug that was used to cover the dusty earth floor, our group leader had arranged for a 4" foam mattress to be put on top. Although there was not enough room to accommodate one mattress for each of us, some of the brothers shared their beds with the less fortunate ones. The air conditioning in the tent was quite good, during the night some brothers complained about the cold and it had to be shut off. 
The bathrooms here were "all purpose". The floor was concrete and in the middle was a pear shaped hole, not unlike the size and shape of a conventional toilet bowl, with marks for your feet on either side of the "hole". There were no seats, no hooks in the stalls and no toilet paper. About two feet from the concrete floor was a water pipe with a 4 to 5 feet section of garden hose attachment, the end of the hose was always laying on the floor. After you use the toilet, you would then take the hose, turn the water on and wash yourself and around the toilet area, trying to get everything into and down the hole. During the Ziara I saw one of these "toilets" on the side of the road, ready to be installed. Attached to the base is a tubular metal shaft that's about 20 to 30 feet long and about a foot in diameter.(top)

Arafat & Muzdalifah

After Fajr on Wednesday, 9th Zul-Hijjah we took a 2 hr. bus trip to Arafat. Here we stayed in another type of tent, although all the sides were enclosed, the ground was bare. Again the sisters stayed in their own ten. As soon as we settled in, we prayed salatul Zohr and salatul Asr combined and shortened, one Azan, two Iqamah.
We ate fruits and other dry food then rested for a while until about 2:00pm. Outside of our tent some brothers were sharing out free cups of "TANG", a citrus juice, that they had mixed in a huge vat of some sort. Our group leader and other members of the group, including a Moulana gave lectures in the tent on the importance of Youmul Arafat and concluded with lengthy duas. We continued our Wuquf until sunset. I saw some brothers leaving our tent to go to Jabal ar-Rahma to do their wuquf.
After sunset, the sides of the tents were removed by some Saudi workers, but we stayed inside and rested until we had news of our busses. It was dark. It wasn't until after 11:30pm that the first bus arrived and by the time we all left it was close to 1:00am.

We arrived at Muzdalifah close to 2:30am in the morning. Because the busses left separately the group was split up. However, there were capable group leaders on each of the busses. There were not enought busses for us so the group leader with us had to charter a private bus to take us.
At Muzdalifah we prayed salatul Magrib and salatul Isha combined, then collected our pebbles. There were no tents here but there were lights, it looked like a huge football field at night. We rolled out our sleeping bags and our prayer mats and slept in the open air in an empty bus parking lot until it was time for Fajr. Our group leader commented on the improvements at Muzdalifah from the year before. There were phone booths, tea vendors and a lot more wudu and bathroom facilities. I accompanied a brother to call home to his wife in Canada.
After Fajr, we tried to get transportation for the elderly people in our group to go back to Mina, but decided it was easier to walk.. They were brave souls and Alhamdu-lilla after and hour and a half of walking we reached our tents. We rested for a while then formed small groups to go and perform Raml Jamarat. (top)

Jamarat

I offered to do the stoning for a sister, then a few of us followed a brother to the site of the Jamarat. Today we will only stone the large Jamarat, jamarat Of Aqabah. The brother (Ahmad) leading us here was an 18 year old Guyanese now of Canadian nationality, but living in Makkah. He held up a red umbrella in the air and the group of about 20 of us followed him through the crowd. 
The same road that is used to go to the jamarat was also used to return to your tents. Sometimes we battled head-on with the crowd which made it twice as difficult to proceed. 
one of the jamarat as seen from the upper level. (source- Tell me about Hajj)

In addition, there were people camped out on one side of the road and vendors on the other side of the road which further reduced the walking area. Finally about 45 minutes later we arrived at the jamarats. We passed the first two and did our stoning of the third, the big jamarat. There were signs identifying them by number and name, the biggest was number 3. 
We re-assembled at a pre arranged spot, then walked past the jamarat to the barbers located at the end of the walkway. Ahmad recommended the Government barbers because they used a new razor on everyone head. 
Fifteen Saudi Riyals and about fifteen minutes later we all had clean shaven heads. We gathered together again and discussed our return trip to the tents. One of my roommates and I wanted to go to the Haram Shareef  to do our Tawaf-ul-Ifada but some wanted to go back to the tents so we decided to part company.

Ahmad, our guide also wanted to return to the hotel so my roommate and I accompanied him. We bought a 10SR ticket and boarded a public bus located further away from the Jamarat and about 15mins later we got to the Haram. The traffic was rough.
We went to the hotel, showered, changed into street clothes, ate, then headed over to the Haram to do our Tawaf and Sai.

source - Tell me about Hajj Needless to say the Haram was very crowded, and we got split up. I did my Tawaf on the mataf area but chose to do my Sai on the second level. I rode an elevator from the main floor up the second floor and as I was about to start the Azan sounder for Asr Salaat. I waited to pray then continued with my Sai.

After Isha salat we returned by Taxi to Mina, it wasn't easy to find our tent. The next day after Dhur, three of us decided to go to do Raml Jamarat together, we stoned all three jamarats. Even before we arrived at the Jamarat I got separated from the group but Alhamdu-lilla I was able to find my way back to the tent. 
The next morning after Fajr, the sisters left to go back to the hotel. We packed out bags and assigned them to a sister then waited until after Dhur to do Raml Jamarat, again we stoned all three jamarats. I ended up alone at the Jamarat as usual and again used the public buses to return to Makkah and my hotel.

I decided to do an additional Umrah early the following morning and one of my roommate asked me to take another brother who needed company and assistance. We left about 2:30am and took a Taxi to Masjid Eisha,  one of the Meeqaats, then returned with the same cab to the Haram. I started my Tawaf about 3:45am and finished the Sai until after salatul Fajr, the crowd was huge, I guess some were trying to perform their Tawaf ul-ifada while others were doing their Tawaf-ul-Wada or Farewell. 

Back at the hotel one of my roommates shaved my head.
During the day we (roommates and I) were invited out by Azam, another Guyanese brother living in Makkah. He took us to his home, fed us some wonderful dates, Al-Baik chicken and camel meat. We prayed at a nearby mosque then took a taxi back to the hotel. That night I did not go for Tahajud at the mosque but went for Fajr salaat with my "roomies", afterwards we ate breakfast at Burger King across from the Haram.

After salatul Asr, I did my Tawaf-ul-Wada, prayed Magrib and Isha salaat, took one last long look around the Haram Shareef and the magestic Kaba then went back to my hotel. We were scheduled to leave for Medina by 9:00pm.that night.
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Medina

As usual, the busses were late and did not leave until 11:30pm. we stopped at a small mosque to pray Fajr salaat then continued on. We arrived at about 11:00 am.
As we entered the outskirts of the city I reflected on the Hijrah and we were helped by our group leader who reminded us about the people of Medina welcoming Rasool-Allah with those all so familiar words of "Tala Badru", the Light has arrived in the city of Medina.
The Prophet's mosque, Medina. (source - Tell me about Hajj)
facing the Prophet's mosque, the walls of Janatul Baqi to your left. March 2000.(pic. by me) After we checked in at the hotel, I prayed Zohr salaat in my room then went to the Haram with one of my roommates from the hotel in Makkah.
The mosque was about a 10 minutes walk from the hotel. The walls of Janatul Baqi was to our left and we passed by lots of stores, including a string of Jewelry stores to our right.

I was not prepared for the awesome sight of the Prophet's (PBUH) mosque. It is magnificent!. None of the pictures that I had seen had ever done justice to it's beauty and architecture. We entered the mosque with two things in mind, to pray in the Rowda and to give our salaam to Rasool-Allah, Abu Bakr Sidique and Umar ibn Khatab. The mosque floor was covered with thick "area rug type" carpet, quite unlike the Haram in Makkah Shareef which had no carpet, (I was told that during Umrah, there are rugs at Makkah Shareef) and the Rowda area is identified by the same rugs but with a white background instead of dark red.

With very little effort, Alhamdu-lilla we found the Rowda and took turns praying our two rakaat Tahatul Masjid, after that we proceeding to the grave of Rasool-Allah.
We exited the Rowda and turned left to follow the crowd. About ten feet from the Rowda to our left we saw a wall of metal grate lattice. The wall was made up of a series of six doors, two doors side by side, a separator, the middle set of doors with a separator between them, then another two doors side by side, at the end. The door that had the most interest was the first door in the middle set. Each door had a "hole",about 4 to 6 inches in diameter that was about 5 to 6 feet from the bottom, but this door had a smaller hole with a large rim around it. This door was identified by one the guards there as the door to the grave of RasoolAllah (PBUH).
There was about eight feet between us and this lattice wall and there was also what appears to be a short wall about 3 feet high right in front of us. Security Guards were standing on this short wall trying to get the crowd to move along and trying to prevent the people from making Dua to the graves. We were ushered past the grave site with just enough time to give our salams, then we turned around, facing the Qibla (and backing the graves) and made our Dua. After our Dua we exited the mosque through the gate nearby and returned to the hotel.
Dinner was buffet style with quite an assortment of dishes to choose from. I was planning to go back to the mosque in the night but found out at dinner that the mosque closes at 10:00 pm and reopens at about 3:00am. so I retired to my room and set my alarm for 2:00am.

one of the entrances to the Prophet's mosque, Medina, March 2000 (pic. by me)

I took along a few brothers with me from the Guyana contingent to show them the Rowda area and got to the mosque at about 2:30am. We waited in a carpeted area outside the mosque until it was opened at about 3:15am. We prayed our two rakat in the Rowda and gave salaam to Rasool-Allah then prayed Tahajud and waited for salatul Fajr.

My other two days at Medina was spent in almost the same way, one day after salatul Asr I visited Janatul Baqi. As was expected, there are no markings in the cemetry to identify where the companions of the Prophet are buried, but there are sections that are boxed around that some group leaders were identifying as burial sites of some of the sahabahs.
On the second day that we were there we were taken on Ziara. We visited mount Uhud and the site of one of the battles where 70 of the companions of the Prophet including his Uncle, Hamza died. We stopped and prayed in  Masjid Quba and Masjid Qiblatine. Masjid Jummah was closed, it is only opened for special occasions these days. Outside of Masjid Quba, young Saudi boys were taking Polaroid pictures for 10SR each.(top)

Returning Home

On Friday March 24th, we prepared to leave Medina for our return to New York. As usual the bus arrangements were very difficult and at one time there were concerns that we may not be able to pray salatul Jummah at the mosque before we left.

After salatul Fajr that morning, and after I had said my farewell salaam to Rasool-Allah, I  was re-directed out of a different door. As I exited the mosque I looked up to see that I came through the gate of Jibraeel, the hair on my arm raised as I recalled the significance of that gate, it was a wonderful feeling.

The busses were late as usual but Alhamu-lilla we were able to pray salatul Jummah not in the mosque, but in the courtyard, so that we could have returned quickly to the busses.
We departed Medina at 3:00pm for our 6 hrs. bus ride to Jeddah. We prayed Salatul Asr in the bus while sitting but stopped along the way at a small mosque to pray Magrib and Isha salaat, finally, Alhamdu-lilla by about 10:00pm, 7hrs after we left Medina we arrived at the Hajj Terminal in Jeddah.
It wasn't until 7:45am the following morning that we boarded our flight to Amman. At Jordan we found out that our flight to New York will be delayed at least 3 hours. We had time to play around with currency and found out that the Saudi Riyals was lower than the Jordanian Dinar. It was quite confusing, at one point we literally opened our palms and had the vendor take the coin that they needed.

Our 2:15pm flight to New York did not leave until 3:10 and after an hour wait in Amsterdam, Alhamdu-lilla, we started the last leg of our journey. During the flight I had time to look at a movie, "Galaxy Quest", starring Tim Allen, and had the opportunity to meet a Pakistani brother who shared a lot of my religious experiences as a non-Arabs. It was the first time that I heard the term "Intellectual Islam". I agreed with the brother's terminology.

At about 9:30pm Saturday March 25th, we arrived at New York's J.F.K. Airport. My emotions were running high at the thoughts of my family and my Mom waiting to greet me, I prayed that Allah will help me to keep my composure and that he will make me strong.
As if all the delays weren't enough, the baggage conveyer broke down and we had to wait over an hour for it to be repaired, during that time we took the opportunity to exchange phone numbers and email addresses and to embrace each other, wishing each other "Hajj Mabroor" and safe passage to their homes.
It was a sad parting, Allah (SWT) had brought us together for a common goal, we had come to know each other within the last 17 days, some of us shared rooms together, we had endured the "hardships" together and now you will part and go our separate ways, each taking his own lessons of Hajj with him, determined to make a change in their lives, and to pursue the things that will earn Allah's pleasure, not his wrath.(top)

Conclusion

All praises and worship are for Allah (SWT), he created us to serve him alone and he has made Hajj compulsory for those who could afford it. Only by his assistance were we able to complete our pilgrimage. 
He had invited only three million of his servants to his house this year and Alhamdu-lilla he has returned most of us safely to our families.
Our lives have been enriched by the experiences of Hajj and the bonds of  brotherhood strengthened by the hours and days we spent together in the complete submission to the will of Allah.

During the lectures we received at Hajj, we were reminded constantly that when we return home, we should be examples to others, that we should be identified by our actions and deeds as one who has performed the Holy pilgrimage.
A fulfilled pilgrim returns to his home, WANTING to do the things that will please Allah (SWT) trying to prioritize his or her life in the right order, with Allah (SWT) at the top of that order. 

source - Tell me about Hajj Hajj is one of the best medicines I found for sickness of the heart. Allah rekindles even a tiny spark of Imaan in your heart and gives you the unique opportunity to live the life of a pilgrim.
The atmosphere that surrounds you is filled with unavoidable remembrances of your Lord. Night and day the praises of Allah (SWT) flows from your heart to the tip of your tongue. With every passing day at Makkah your heart begins to soften, Allah (SWT) increases your compassion manifold even to the extent that you are careful not to harm the leaves on the small trees on the sidewalk of Makkah.

Personally I will encourage brothers and sisters to make the Hajj in their early to mid-years, as we all know Allah (SWT) chose to send the first revelation to RasoolAllah at age forty. By this time the Prophet (PBUH) was already married and had children, and we all know that Allah (SWT) is infallible. 
If we were to stop and think that maybe our living in North America is no co-incidence but an orchestrated plan by Allah (SWT) to bring us to this land, that some think of as the Shaitaan. 
Most of us will have to admit that  being in this part of the world has helped us tremendously to gain knowledge of our religion, or as the brother put it,  "Intellectual Islam".
Allah has made it possible for us to come this far and has bestowed his mercy and sustenance on us and he loves those who spend out their hard earnings to earn his pleasure.

May Allah forgive me for any mistakes that I may have made in this article and may he increase my knowledge of religion, InshaAllah. Ameen.

The purpose of this article is only to share my experiences with you, it is not meant as a manual for Hajj. Numerous books that will guide you through the rituals of Hajj and Umrah are available from your local Islamic Bookstores.

with my daughter Shazena, March 2000 after my return.
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Some pictures and side bars taken from the children's book, "Tell me about Hajj" (ISBN #81-87570-00-8).
Jazak Allah to my wife for the tremendous work she did with the editing of this and all my other publications on the web. May Allah (SWT) shower his choicest blessings on her. Ameen.